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Marriage
The Bible is the foundation of morality and marriage.  Marriage is the support and stay of morality.  Undermining marriage sabotages Bible teaching and thwarts righteousness. The Christian pattern for marriage is indissoluble unity.  Marriage is to be had in honor among all--saint and sinner--and the bed undefiled (Heb. 13:4).

What Is Marriage?

Marriage is sacred.  It is the appointment of the living God.  It is the coming together of two lives in the deepest possible unity.  It is the surrender of separate individuality and the mingling of each in a common stream.

The following passages are God's view on marriage and divorce:

And the LORD God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make an help meet for him" (Gen. 2:18).  And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from the man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.  And the man said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh" (Gen. 2:22-24).

"Ye have heard that it was said, Thou shalt not commit adultery:  but I say unto you, that every one that looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart" (Matt. 5:27-28).

"It was said also, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement: but I say unto you, that every one that putteth away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, maketh her an adulteress: and whosoever shall marry her when she is put away committeth adultery" (Matt. 5:31-32).

"And there came unto him Pharisees, trying him, and saying, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?  And he answered and said, Have ye not read, that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?  So that they are no more two, but one flesh.  What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.  They say unto him, Why then did Moses command to give a bill of divorcement, and to put her away? He saith unto them, Moses for your hardness of heart suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it hath not been so.  And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and he that marrieth her when she is put away committeth adultery" (Matt. 19:3-9).

"And there came unto him Pharisees, and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? trying him. And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you?  And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away.  But Jesus said unto them, For your hardness of heart he wrote you this commandment.  But from the beginning of the creation, Male and female made he them.  For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh: so that they are no more two, but one flesh.  What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.  And in the house the disciples asked him again of this matter.  And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her: and if she herself shall put away her husband, and marry another, she committeth adultery" (Mark 10:2-12).

"Every one that putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and he that marrieth one that is put away from a husband committeth adultery" (Luke 16:18).

"For the woman that hath a husband is bound by law to the husband while he liveth; but if the husband die, she is discharged from the law of the husband.  So then if, while the husband liveth, she be joined to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if the husband die, she is free from the law, so that she is no adulteress, though she be joined to another man" (Rom. 7:2-3).

"But unto the married I give charge, yea not I, but the Lord, That the wife depart not from her husband (but should she depart, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband); and that the husband leave not his wife" (1 Cor. 7:10-11).

"A wife is bound for so long time as her husband liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is free to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord" (1 Cor. 7:39).

The Bible is clear in telling us that marriage is a life long committed together as husband and wife.  Each is responsible for his or her conduct and each of them will stand individually before God in the last judgment.  They are one in the sense that God blessed their decision to be united in marriage.  He sees and hears their pledge and they are joined together in his mind.  Jesus said, "What God hath joined together, let not man put asunder."  It is God who joins the man and woman together.  Man cannot undo what God has done.

Regardless of what the civil rule for marriage is, the critical thing is God joining the man and woman together.  Marriage is a four-cornered contract.  It involves (1) the man and (2) the woman and (3) the Lord God and (4) the social custom or law of the land.  No matter what the civil rule is God joins the couple together.  In every culture, clime, language and nation God is involved in the marriage.